I met someone really nice online! We have pretty much hit it off and been hanging out for a month now. We are just friends though. Or at least I am to him. I think he likes me more. But I have told him, I can only give him friendship right now. See, I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend but we are supposedly just friends. We talk or email almost everyday. (He lives in another state.) He is my best friend. And my ex-boyfriend is coming to visit in a few weeks. Anyway, am I leading the online guy on? I really do enjoy his company.
Am I leading him on?
I met someone really nice online! We have pretty much hit it off and been hanging out for a month now. We are just friends though. Or at least I am to him. I think he likes me more. But I have told him, I can only give him friendship right now. See, I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend but we are supposedly just friends. We talk or email almost everyday. (He lives in another state.) He is my best friend. And my ex-boyfriend is coming to visit in a few weeks. Anyway, am I leading the online guy on? I really do enjoy his company.
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November 28th, 2009 at 4:33 pm
Nah. I think it’s fine unles you are doing something more than you are revealing here in your description. If he knows all of this about you then you are being honest and putting all the information out there for him to evaluate. That’s not leading him on.
December 1st, 2009 at 12:11 am
Talk to him and express your feelings.If he’s truly a good friend he’ll understand your circumstance
December 2nd, 2009 at 2:58 am
As long as you’re being upfront and honest about the other guy then you really have nothing to worry about. As adults we’re responsbible for our own feelings.
December 2nd, 2009 at 8:15 am
No as long as you are firm in the friendshipo thing and you do not make comments that may suggest other wise.
December 2nd, 2009 at 2:20 pm
no!your simply enjoying his wonderful company.just let him know thats all it is.
December 4th, 2009 at 1:15 pm
nope you arent!
December 6th, 2009 at 3:55 am
You will never be available to anyone else until your love for your ex is over. I believe you do care about this friend and as long as you remain honest you have done your part.
December 7th, 2009 at 4:30 am
well..maybe you should try telling him again just to make sure he knows that are just friends!..b/c if he doesnt know..then you ARE leading him on….and unless you are doing other things..besides what you told us then it doesnt seem like you are so dont worry!
December 7th, 2009 at 7:25 pm
well, if you told him you are still in love wth ur ex, then youve done wht u need to do if he doesnt accept tht then thts his prob. but tell him gentley
December 10th, 2009 at 5:28 pm
if your boyfriend is an “ex” then its time to move on. obviously he or you have decided that you and he are not meant for each other and the the boyfriend has moved on. its time to let over it. give this guy a chance. this sounds like the movie fatal atraction.
December 12th, 2009 at 9:54 pm
I don’t think you are.. After all you did tell him that you can only give him friendship right now… If he has more feelings for you then that is his cup of tea… I don’t think that you should worry about it, just enjoy the friendship. You never know though, one day you two might end up together…. Good luck and God bless