Feb 28


We started out as friends, but when I became single he aggressively pursued me as a romantic interest. I wanted to take things slow, but he was so attentive, charming and persistent that I decided to give him a chance.

Once we started dating, he was passionate about every aspect of our relationship. From the first day, he became possessive and wanted to monopolize my time. Creating a balance between starting the relationship and living my own life became hard, but since I was moved by his enthusiasm I decided to just go with the flow.

It takes me a while to warm up to things, which I definitely let him know. It was a few months before I became truly comfortable opening up to him. In the meantime, he was introducing me to his friends and family and trying to get to know mine.

Finally, I had time to reflect on our relationship when I took a trip out of the country. I realized that the months of courtship had endeared him to me and that his unwavering interest made me trust that he was sincere. I decided to put my heart into his hands and relinquish my emotions to the relationship.

When I came home, we were closer than ever after 6 months of dating.

But there were still a few things that needed to be ironed out, such as the possessiveness and the fact that he sometimes made me feel that my schedule and agenda were secondary to his. When we began to talk about these issues, he would lose his patience very quickly and shut down. Our arguments generally led nowhere, since he is stubborn and quick to withdraw. During arguments, he would be quick to abandon me, anywhere. It could be in the middle of the night, or in the midst of a busy city street – of I became upset about any issue, he would be gone sooner than I could think straight.

We broke up a few times and got back together. There developed a pattern where anytime I would get upset, he would just turn his phone off and stop answering my calls and texts. I did everything that I could to try to resolve the problems, and soon I felt as though the tables were turned and I was having to come up with convincing arguments for him to be with me – it had taken me a while to warm up to him, but once I did, I really did. He became busy with work and made it clear that I was not his number 1 priority, his career is – since we are young, I understood this.

I felt as though I had to balance the beginning of our relationship, when I was not sure and he was, and became more loving and atttentive. In our most private moments, he shared with me the fact that though he was under pressure with work and the tensions of our relationship, that he still loved me with a great intensity.

I tried to give him time and space to figure out what he wanted, but somehow we wound up being together during every free moment again He initiated a lot of our dates during this time. He was again monopolizing my time. As much as I tried to continue on with my own life, he wanted to be around me so much that he accompanied me everywhere.

I was thrilled by all of this effort on his part so decided to be a supportive girlfriend and be especially conscious of his work routine and pressures, smooth his life over as much as I could.

Last weekend he went out with his friends. One of his guy friends is especially possessive of him – whenever they are around each other he pulls him away for private conversations, clearly letting me know that they are talking amongst the two of them and I am not welcome. We had planned to meet in the late evening, so when I called my boyfriend I was following up on plans. He seemed distracted and annoyed when we spoke, and when I tried to find out how we were going to meet up he seemed to not want me there. I asked him if he wanted to see me, and he said that it would be too expensive to pick me up and that he didn’t have time. He never had excuses like this before and the whole situation felt shady.

I became upset, which led him to hang up on me. Infuriated, I called him back. He sent me to voice mail, so I called about four more times before informing him that that was not a very mature or intelligent way to end a conversation.

He never called back, so the next day I wrote him an angry email, describing why his actions upset me. He was very quick to respond, and said, “I guess we can agree that this is finally over then.” I haven’t heard from him since.

How could he go from being practically obsessed with me and being utterly devoted to completely shutting me out? I wonder if his friends were an influence on him – some of them are newly single and would be encouraging him to take the easy way out of a relationship. He comes from a family where his parents rarely argued, and so I have been developing the idea that when there is a disagreement or conflict, he runs away. What do you think happened?

Feb 28


I have no clue how to connect to the Internet on the PS3. Like, what materials do I need? How do I hook up these materials to the PS3 and the Internet? I have Comcast. Please tell me the steps on how to hook up to the Internet on the PS3 with the materials I need.

Feb 26


If you run a home business that is internet heavy, is it possible to get a “business class” internet line from your local ISP? Or do you have to actually have a commercial address? If so, what other options do you have for getting fast up/down and reliable internet for your home business? T1?

Feb 26


I am looking for a web page for finding how long a house has been on the market and wat the fair market value is.

Feb 25


i have seen this technology in number of hollywood movies.
when the wanted person’s sketch and movement being checked through satellite.

plz let me know if there any paid web service or softerware available in market.
i need solution.

Feb 25


im begining to not have any feelings for him, but we just got done IMing and all of a sudden, he starts insulting me playfully and cursing at me(i kinda took it personal) which he never did but after i sent him an email stating that i didnt like that he was leading me on, and i wasnt looking for a realtionship when we first talked……we never brought the email up so im not sure if he read it or not but it was sent monday….why is he acting like this? to get back at me for hurting his feelings or something?

Feb 24


I don’t want to have internet on my plan but I want to go on the internet on my LG Shine, without paying for it. I have heard of someone doing this but I forgot to ask and I do not have any contact with the person any more.

Feb 21


A small company contacted me that deals with very small businesses like myself. I am a freelance exhibition stand and interior designer, I work for firms filling in when they have too much work.

The company that contacted me offer the service below, which is something I am no good at as my telephone sales skills are not brilliant. Do you think it is a useful service or would I end up annoying the potential clients in my industry?
Or should I just be chasing clients myself with difficulty? Would it even be something design teams would find freelancers through?

“If you would like to test e-marketing then we could develop an email and distribute to approximately 120 contacts. We will then follow the email up with a telephone call and pass the feedback and any leads onto you. I appreciate budget is tight therefore Your Sales Manager will provide this service for £150. As you can appreciate this is a very competitive rate considering the list building, script developing, e-marketing and also telemarketing that is to be undertaken”

Many Thanks

Feb 20


So here’s the story, it’s kind of long but worth a read. I’ve been dating my current gf for about 6 mo, things were seemingly going well. Last weekend she was gone overnight and I was watching her hosue for her. I was using her computer when I “accidentaly” signed into her yahoo messenger account. I was looking mostly because I knew she had archived all of our conversations from when we first met and I was curious to read them. However, it also appears that she archived several other conversations with other people. It appears that she had still been chatting with a guy whom she had a brief relationship. The content of the chats was very graphic, and I was led to believe there were also graphic phone conversations, all while she is dating me. I confront her, and she manages to get me to give her another chance. Anyway I findout today she has sent him an email, and asked him to call her tomorrow. She claims it is so she can tell him not to call any more. Dump her or talk to her?
More details… I found out “accidentally” that she was telling this guy to call again. I seem to be having these accidents. She claimed she knew I was looking at her messenger. I was, but she doesn’t realize I can’t see any convo’s she’s been having so she fessed up that he messaged her twice. About the guy; she told me about him when we first started going out. She said that they chatted online, and met a few times when he was in Chicago on business. She told me that he still calls, and they still talk however she only said that they talk as friends. So I knew that going in, but I obviously had no idea about the sexual nature of their ongoing conversations. The guy lives in Ireland so it’s not like she can physically be with him (at least not with any regularity), but the explicit nature of the conversations bothers me. She claimed she was going to stop contacting him, but then I find the previously mentioned email. I’m just at a loss for what to do.

Feb 20


I am trying to market my son’s skateboard business web site (http:///www.suddendeathskateboards.com), but don’t have a large budget. What are some good, inexpensive (or free!) ways to market your site without making the Internet Search Engine Gods mad at you?

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