still an emotional affair. What if it’s the girl after the guy and he yet says he loves the wife and all, but replies to the girl and seconds the play a little bit, making her feel like he likes her and then bounces back.
This is of course people who are long distance from one another and yet email very often, she calls him, he likes it and go on……


March 26th, 2010 at 8:33 pm
What’s the question, could you be a little more specific, what are you asking ,what do you mean “how about that?”?
March 27th, 2010 at 10:52 pm
Yes, it’s still an emotional affair. And he’s using her.
March 31st, 2010 at 9:15 am
Sounds like a case of him leading her on and a bit of unrequited feelings on the single chick’s part. Because although the married guy may email and all that other stuff alot to her, he is clearly playing with her. Some may consider it an emotional affair but I just see it as game playing in this case. And the ***** should wise up and move along. Because if he isn’t playing this game with her it be someone else for sure. So she is really losing out on this side of things.
April 3rd, 2010 at 5:41 pm
Yes that is an emotional affair. He is encouraging it, and allowing it to happen even if he says it’s only on her side that there is love. He is getting something out of it or he would not be doing it. He has no business even talking, texing, e-mailing, any women that has feelings for him if he is married. I don’t care how many times he says he loves his wife. His actions tell her different, or she wouldn’t keep contacting him.
April 3rd, 2010 at 9:46 pm
Yes it is still an emotional affair. It sounds like like he wants Ice cream with his cake. If its you I say move on.
April 5th, 2010 at 9:09 am
it’s always a simple answer. when someone is married, they need to cut off other conversation, flirting, etc. with the opposite ***. that may not be a popular answer in today’s culture, but if it was your spouse you wouldn’t want them involved with someone of the opposite *** that could lead to an affair.
April 8th, 2010 at 9:03 pm
Not if the wife knows all about it.
She’s an emotional friend; when they start “covering their tracks” then the affair begins.
April 10th, 2010 at 4:00 am
you have to move onif your talking about serious relationship. LOVE isn’t just about words. sometimes you need something hard to prove its there. and obviously, you can’t get it. its just something that he enjoys and after he enjoys you he can still go back to his wife. and you ? you’ll be hurt. i know its hard to let go. but there are really things in the world that are not meant for us. and you need to move. unless he really loves you and willing to leave his wife behind for you. if you think he can do that then why not ? just think about yourself.