May 31


I ve always been irregular with my periods and missed them for 6 months due to stress and then i had 3 and i ve missed the past 2
i took a pregnancy test a month ago which said negative
but im getting paranoid

me and my boyfriend always use contraception and he checks the condom after *** so he knows it hasnt split or anything
but last week i had stomach pains for just over a week
and i am feeling a little sick sometimes
but apart from that no other major changes as i have always felt a little tired during the daytime
but i just wondered if anyone could help?

I had a blood test done last week can they detect pregnancy?

Im really scared so any help would be appreciated
it was just like a normal blood test

but they just said my homophones were inbalanced it wasnt like a pregnancy blood test just one to see why my periods werent coming

but i was on the verge of polycystic ovaries before so its a bit like hmmm

I stopped my periods when i came back from uni , my habits had changed like i started the gym and i was not eating throughout the day and mainly at night which may have affected it

but now im like looking at all these symptoms on the web which worries me

im only 19 im not even thinking about getting pregnant

May 28


I have been with the same guy for two years now. I’m not sharing our ages so you cannot judge based on that; but we are in our twenties I’ll put it at that. It will mark two years in July this year. We’ve had our problems in the beginning. Now it all seems to be running it’s course down hill. It seems to me he does not know what he wants anymore and does not have the guts to admit it. Here is what gets me second guessing his actions 1 year and 8 months into the relationship. March of 2009 he asks for a break; because of trust from me accusing him constantly (I think i do it out of habit because of how I was treated in my last relationship) he never did anything to destroy my trust, but i kept doing that. Also it seemed a little stale. So I stayed at my moms and we took a ‘break’, it was about 2 weeks and we got back together. Everything seemed ok. Bur after the break i could just sense something more was there that wasn’t being said. After the break and we get back together, he tells me he’s moving next month! So I’m like not even warned about this only in a months advance?! So I’m like is one thing leading to an other here??

So from the beginning of our relationship, he has told me all about how he’s wanted to move to Arizona (he has family out there) after he visited in 2006. He’s always talked about it. But the thing is, he told me a month before he wanted to move; told me in march. He told me he had been planning it since December of 2008 but didn’t know if we was for sure; (but never said anything). That explains why he told me he never had any money, IT WAS BECAUSE HE WAS STASHING IT AWAY.He is staying with his grandmother who lives in a elderly housing; that’s his excuse as to why I could not come with him at first. His mother confirmed that with me that she does in fact live in elderly housing and she cannot have anyone living with her. He’s staying there temporarily; until he gets on his feet. He has no job yet, because of the bad economy I am guessing. He’s been in Arizona for a month and 2 weeks now.

Then out of the blue, he’s been thinking he says. And he has a lot on his mind. He still thinks we have trust issues because i accused him of something outrageous. He thought that the break and time apart for a while would work and then he thought this distance would bring us closer together and the accusing would stop; but it didn’t he says. So he said that we should split up for a bit (like it makes a difference we are 3,000 miles apart!) and talk about this as friends for a while and try to work things out. He says he still loves me very much and if it weren’t for the trust issues which is a big DEAL for him, that he thinks I’d be the ‘one’. He doesn’t want loose that. So he thinks being single for a while and doing our own thing is a good way to build trust. He says he has no intention what so ever to meet or date other people. He says he trusts himself in what he wants and want to make things better for us and still wants me to move out there with him. But he definitely wants to know that the accusing will stop before we continue this. Basically being apart really puts to test our trust, our loyalty, and our own word to the ultimate test; so he says. Without trust, you have nothing he says; I believe that’s true.Also he seems so eager to have me change my myspace status to single; which i haven’t yet, I’M NOT THAT DESPERATE to go flaunt that I’m single. (he hasn’t changed his either because I haven’t changed mine yet lol)

Does this make any sense!? OR does he just want to let me down easy?? Can someone please put some input?

May 26


I’ve had a problem with Gmail for a long time now and was wondering if anyone out there had any idea as to what’s going on. You can’t seem to get a good answer from Gmail help so I’m not even going to bother wasting my time contacting them.

I am a member of several Yahoo groups that have had bounced messages like crazy. A lot of people blame it on Yahoo but I don’t. The reason I don’t is because I use callwave on my computer and from time to time they send me things through email. I had a message just pop up from callwave saying that they tried to contact me but the message was returned as undeliverable because my box was full. My Gmail account is only 8% full. There is no way it is full, so my question is why does Gmail like to just bounce back messages? I’ve already switched all my mail back to Yahoo but wanted to know what some of you all thought.

May 25


Why do I dream being in High School when I’m now an adult? It has been almost 10 yrs since I graduated from High School. It bothers me b/c I don’t’ want to dream of High school is always about missing a class or major test and being unable to graduate on time! What?! I graduated on time and did wonderfully in all areas in High School. I receive a full Academic Scholarship in which I graduated successfully. So, Also keep dreaming of a old crush too. Real Story: For the first to years of High School I had a crush on a jock. He seemed to like me too, but somehow I intimidated him ( I was not approachable I got shy around him). After two yrs I decided to talk to him tell him or ask for his number. I saw him on the hall way and I was on my way where he was standing and he was looking too. This was it! Wrong this girl came over grabbed him and kissed him! I past walk them on my business. I never did or said anything, since I’m respectful of people’s relationship and moved on after that painful experience for a teen. Well, as an adult I’m happily married and thrilled in my relationship. I know I married my soul mate. I’m also thinking going back to school to learn technology. So why would I have the same stupid dreams in trying to tell him but now I tell him in my dream that ” I did like you but now I’m in love and happily married.” Also, missing classes and major test dates and not being able to graduate in time! See why it doesn’t make sense to me at all.
It bothers me to keep dreaming these events….I dont’ want to keep dreaming these dreams. What do I do? The strange thing is that these started happening when my wedding announcement was announce in the newspaper of my old home town. Even though, now I live so far away since I got married. My old school reunion is going to occur this year and I’m not planning to attend. I currently don’t have a stable job, but I don’t’ care much about old high school life either. It was fun and I moved on. College was so much better for me. During High School my parents split up. So this is all I can think about that was needed to analyze it since I’m a former Social Worker but can’t figure it how to stop it or why this occurs so often. Thanks! :)

May 21


My father just received a second letter from our cable provider regarding my delinquent brother downloading movies. They state they were notified by the RIAA (or some similar group) a second time about an illegal download and if it happens one more time the cable company will be forced to shut off our service. We depend on this company for TV, phone as well as internet so switching companies will be costly and a pain.

My dad wants to just get rid of the internet service but I’d really rather not have to go to my neighbors or the library to check email or pay bills when I get back from college for the summer.

We were promised after the first letter that the downloads would stop but obviously my brother can’t be trusted. Is there any simple way to throttle these large downloads from the router side? (rather than on his laptop). Ideally such a product could identify large downloads but not impact online gaming or legal downloads via the playstation network.

May 21


i downloaded a wii game, the next day i got a email from the cable co(my internet provider, sayin that the esa(entertainment software association), sent them a email, that i had violated copyright infringement, and not to do it again. the cable co, even threatened to cut off my account and service. is there anywhere i can download wii games without this ordeal? why are they threatening me? shouldnt the esa be going after the website i got my unllimited wii download membership from?

May 20


i was with aol to provide my internet service I moved house in October 2008 the telephone was disconneted to my horror my husband just mentioned when I complained about aol free email
he said cancel subsciption from his account which was being taken each month since
oct 2008 he had not realised I no longer used them as a provider .

When I asked aol why they were still claiming money they said even though they had the a to call to cancel I agreed to have one month free to see if I would need the service even though I had explained the new house already had a provider that because I did not ring again (what for I had cancelled) they provided me with a service.
even agreeing I had no usage on the account
service to a house that was sold with no telephone (I think not) and that I am liable for the service cost for the last 15 months.

this is an extract of mail from aol
You were then in contact on the 23rd of October, as you had recieved an email about the package change, the cancellations agent you were speaking to advised you of the free month, and the fact you were not in contract, and advised you to get in contact with us to activate your broadband services once you were live at your new address.

any suggestion please

May 17


I can feel that my private and personal email account and the ISP connection is being hacked. Somehow, it seems like someone is reading my private emails and my facebook account. I have already tried to install a Norton Antivirus software. But it does not help.
And this situation persist. As a result, I don’t dare to do any online banking, shopping or any other activities that require me to provide my ID numbers. I don’t feel safe on the internet.
How can this problem be resolved? Do I need to change the ISP provider or to buy a computer? But it will cost a lot of money to discontinue the ISP service or to buy a new computer!!
I am no IT specialist, so any of the reformatting procedures or the anti spy ware or actions suggested by the nice helpers will not work for me. As I do not have the know-how to carry them out! I really feel like crying!!

May 17


ok heres the short of it: my hubby and i split for a few weeks a bout two yrs ago, both had drunken rebound bar flings. he hooked a crazy one who stalked him and when we got back together she was super pissed! had to change our number, had to have all of my calls at work screened through security b/c she would call like every 10 minutes! she drove from two counties away several times a week to leave love letters and did me wrong letters and used pregnancy tests in our mail box.

last month he got a summons for a paternity test! i am trying to be supportive be am still a little in shock and it does slightly depress me. i worry most about her acting like an *** and giving her the opportunity to harass and stalk us again.
hubby says IF IT IS his child then we will try to have an arrangement made to drop off and pick up at a police station, so there will be minimal drama.

can i get a restraining order based soley on her past behavior? what doyou think about the pickup/ drop off thing
ty

May 16


I was scammed out of about $20,000 by a guy using a fake business name in another state. I was in contact with him by e-mail and phone, I wired the money to a business account at Bank of America.

Would it be best to go after his bank account since he must have used his name and SS# to open the account and therefor we will be able to identify him?

or,

Is there a way to track his phone number? (probably a prepaid cell phone which cannot be tracked to anyone)

or,

Is there a way to reliably track his e-mail back to him? ( I have been told that this can be done, but it would be hard to tell if this individual was the one using it or if someone just bounced their email off of someone else’s ip, therefor not very reliable.)

Your opinions are greatly appreciated.

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