ok heres the short of it: my hubby and i split for a few weeks a bout two yrs ago, both had drunken rebound bar flings. he hooked a crazy one who stalked him and when we got back together she was super pissed! had to change our number, had to have all of my calls at work screened through security b/c she would call like every 10 minutes! she drove from two counties away several times a week to leave love letters and did me wrong letters and used pregnancy tests in our mail box.
last month he got a summons for a paternity test! i am trying to be supportive be am still a little in shock and it does slightly depress me. i worry most about her acting like an *** and giving her the opportunity to harass and stalk us again.
hubby says IF IT IS his child then we will try to have an arrangement made to drop off and pick up at a police station, so there will be minimal drama.
can i get a restraining order based soley on her past behavior? what doyou think about the pickup/ drop off thing
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