Im not sure if i should call her up and ask her or just wait till they call me and tell me, we split up apox three weeks ago b/c we were living with her parents and we couldnt find a home ( couldnt come up with down payment ) she told me she needed space and was nervous about this pregancy b/c the prior two didnt go as planned ( her third, my first ). i will admit i wasnt being a Great father figure to her children and have learned my mistake and would do anything in the world for a second chance, we never really fought alot but i put her first and her kids second ( mistake ive noticed ) but she is jobless and living with her parents and kids but i still drop off money ever week and put it in the mailbox and drive away b/c i know she needs it and i dont want her dad having to pay for our mistake b/c i told her i would take care of her when i moved in ( i lived in diff city when she got pregant )
i have two jobs and really no bills and have money saved up for our son, i dont call her and she doesnt call me b/c we are giving one another space- only text and talk once a week, she started to cry when i told her i want her back ( another mistake on my part-to fast ) and wanted to move her and the kids out b/c i dont want to be away from my only son- she tells me she is having to go to the doctor three times a week and do test every week, i didnt ask what type of test or anything and wouldnt know if she told me.
but a month or so ago, she told me i would be in labor room no matter what and will kick me out if i start putting attention on me or asking alot of questions-
should i ask her next time i talk to her if i will be allowed in the labor room to see my son born and if so, how should i ask ?
will you please allow me in labor room and etc ? or what..i have NO clue on how to ask.
secondly, me giving her money b/c i know she is broke- does that say anything on my part- ( money not an issue w/ me )
im 34 and she is 28
a friend told me pregant women get mad at their mate for some strange reasons…?…true ?
and plz do not **** on me
and no we dont need to talk about lawyers and child support ,,,,YET
