From the beginning his parents hated me. I was 18 and he was 20 when we first got together. We knew right then and there that we loved each other so we decided to try for a baby within a couple of months we were expecting. His parents never believed she was his child. His parents said we had to get married now which we planned to after the baby was born. I was so happy I was pregnant I told one of his dad’s workers a week after our wedding. His dad yelled at me because he didn’t want anyone to know it would be bad for business. His dad owned a trucking company at the time. The night he yelled at me I almost had to go to the hospital. I finally calmed down enough. For the first year of our marriage, we fought to stay together. His parents have tried so many times to split us up, I can’t even count how many. His never liked me because I spoke my own mind and have a tattoo. His parents always believed I forced myself on him even though I was sexual abused when I was little so I know how that feels and I would never do that to anyone. His parents never wanted anyone to know I was pregnant until after the wedding. During my pregnancy, I asked his parents numerous of times to go to the doctor’s appts but they wouldn’t. It wasn’t until I was soo sick that his mom started helping me. I had severe pre-clampisa. I had a emergency c-section at 34 weeks. His parents found out Delane is indeed his daughter, they didn’t need a dna test because she looked exactly like him and nothing like me. Since the day, she was born his family wanted us to go to all the holidays they would fight us to get to see Delane for the holidays. Like my family wasn’t important as them, but when I found out I was pregnant my family supported us and my mom went to almost all my appts. with us not like his family. We finally snapped in March of 2008, they wanted to have her for Easter and so they asked Matt on the phone. It got so bad we always were right by each other when we talked to them on the phone. So they asked if they could have Delane for Easter, Matt said maybe let me talk to Cassie about it. So at the time Matt and I worked but I had a half way early shift. I worked 9 am to 6 pm so I wanted Delane to paint Easter eggs with me so I called them and told them, I wanted her for Easter they said Matt said they can have her for Easter so I blew up and told them to never talk to us again. A week went and I was still upset, I didn’t start my period so I took a pregnancy test it came out positive a very faint positive. I was so happy until later on that day I started cramping and bleeding sure enough I had a misccarriage. I went to the doctors 2 days later and he confirmed it and he said I miscarried because of stress. My doctor knew everything that was going on with his parents. I had to be put on anexity and depression medicine. The anexity was beacuse I would have attacks when I talked about them or with them. His parents stayed out of our lives for a year until we got a letter from their attorney about taking us to court if they don’t get to see her so we let them for awhile but then it got messed up again this time I told them to take us to court. Matt and I were even talking about divorce because of them. We talked about it and decided to stay together but we just felt like it wasn’t worth it anymore with all the fighting we were doing with his family but we love each other alot. His mom was dignosed with diabetes in 2007 but nobody changed their diet for her and she didn’t either. She has gone to the hospital alot all because of her not taking care of herself. She went to the hospital last Saturday and her husband told me it was all my fault but he wouldn’t tell me why she was sick so it doesn’t sound like I did it. I sent her a sonogram picture to prove I am pregnant and that’s why they can’t see Delane because they stress me out too much but that was in September and now it’s October and we only live 30 mins from them so I know she got it already. His dad said they never wanted to see Delane again so I should be happy but I’m not I feel terrible and I didn’t do anything. Should I feel this way? I really need some advice on this. Thanks for reading something this long
I FEEL TORN ABOUT MY DAUGHTER’S EX GRANDPARENTS PLZ HELP ME?
From the beginning his parents hated me. I was 18 and he was 20 when we first got together. We knew right then and there that we loved each other so we decided to try for a baby within a couple of months we were expecting. His parents never believed she was his child. His parents said we had to get married now which we planned to after the baby was born. I was so happy I was pregnant I told one of his dad’s workers a week after our wedding. His dad yelled at me because he didn’t want anyone to know it would be bad for business. His dad owned a trucking company at the time. The night he yelled at me I almost had to go to the hospital. I finally calmed down enough. For the first year of our marriage, we fought to stay together. His parents have tried so many times to split us up, I can’t even count how many. His never liked me because I spoke my own mind and have a tattoo. His parents always believed I forced myself on him even though I was sexual abused when I was little so I know how that feels and I would never do that to anyone. His parents never wanted anyone to know I was pregnant until after the wedding. During my pregnancy, I asked his parents numerous of times to go to the doctor’s appts but they wouldn’t. It wasn’t until I was soo sick that his mom started helping me. I had severe pre-clampisa. I had a emergency c-section at 34 weeks. His parents found out Delane is indeed his daughter, they didn’t need a dna test because she looked exactly like him and nothing like me. Since the day, she was born his family wanted us to go to all the holidays they would fight us to get to see Delane for the holidays. Like my family wasn’t important as them, but when I found out I was pregnant my family supported us and my mom went to almost all my appts. with us not like his family. We finally snapped in March of 2008, they wanted to have her for Easter and so they asked Matt on the phone. It got so bad we always were right by each other when we talked to them on the phone. So they asked if they could have Delane for Easter, Matt said maybe let me talk to Cassie about it. So at the time Matt and I worked but I had a half way early shift. I worked 9 am to 6 pm so I wanted Delane to paint Easter eggs with me so I called them and told them, I wanted her for Easter they said Matt said they can have her for Easter so I blew up and told them to never talk to us again. A week went and I was still upset, I didn’t start my period so I took a pregnancy test it came out positive a very faint positive. I was so happy until later on that day I started cramping and bleeding sure enough I had a misccarriage. I went to the doctors 2 days later and he confirmed it and he said I miscarried because of stress. My doctor knew everything that was going on with his parents. I had to be put on anexity and depression medicine. The anexity was beacuse I would have attacks when I talked about them or with them. His parents stayed out of our lives for a year until we got a letter from their attorney about taking us to court if they don’t get to see her so we let them for awhile but then it got messed up again this time I told them to take us to court. Matt and I were even talking about divorce because of them. We talked about it and decided to stay together but we just felt like it wasn’t worth it anymore with all the fighting we were doing with his family but we love each other alot. His mom was dignosed with diabetes in 2007 but nobody changed their diet for her and she didn’t either. She has gone to the hospital alot all because of her not taking care of herself. She went to the hospital last Saturday and her husband told me it was all my fault but he wouldn’t tell me why she was sick so it doesn’t sound like I did it. I sent her a sonogram picture to prove I am pregnant and that’s why they can’t see Delane because they stress me out too much but that was in September and now it’s October and we only live 30 mins from them so I know she got it already. His dad said they never wanted to see Delane again so I should be happy but I’m not I feel terrible and I didn’t do anything. Should I feel this way? I really need some advice on this. Thanks for reading something this long
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