Aug 31


Well I am 15, and started my periods about a week before my 15th birthday, which is like a year next month.
My periods from the start were very heavy, painful and would come like every 2 weeks, so my mum got me put on the pill.
I have been on the pill for like 7 months now.

I then started having *** with my boyfriend after like 3 months of being on the pill. We also used condoms. Then last month I finished the pack of pills, and then I started to have the week off, then I remembered my prom was that week I would be on my period so after like 2-3 days of not taking the pill I started taking it again, and I never had a period. With 1 week left of the second pack of pills, I lost it, and instead of opening a new pack I decided to just not take it. Then when me and my boyfriend was having *** (using a condom) it split. I though I would be ok because I had over a month of pills.

But my period was a bit late, because I usually start during the night and its rather heavy. But this time I was getting ready because me and my boyfriend was going to meet up and go get a pregnancy test to check, then when I was changing my underwear I noticed a few drops of blood, so I told my boyfriend it didn’t matter about getting a pregnancy test but we still met up and went to his to chill out for a few hours.
Usually the first day of my period is very heavy and really painful and I have to use 5-7 towels a day. But today it hasn’t been heavy one bit. I have used 2 towels and they wern’t even ful! The first one just had like a big-ish pile of blood which was like black with a tint of red in it. And now the secone one has nothing on it, but when I go to the loo I wipe a bit of blood away, so its so light it isn’t even coming out.

Could I be pregnant, and for some reason bleeding.
Or could it be really light because this is my first period in 2 months?

Aug 16


well me and my boyfriend had *** on the 2nd November at about 2pm and the condom split. We debated about having children but decided we wasn’t financially stable yet so i took the morning after pill on the 5th November at 1pm. Which i know was very close to not being able to use it. i Normally get my period on the 18th which is today but i think my cycle has been messed up because of the morning after pill. i took a pregnancy test on the 15th but it was negative. But the thing is i keep having really bad mood swings and pains like period pains, ive been having these for 2 weeks now. So i duno what to think, am i pregnant or not? and shall i just keep taking tests till my period starts (if it ever does) because ive heard taking the morning after pills sometimes makes you miss a month.

Please help

Aug 15


this is a short version of my situation I’m not looking for criticism or sympathy but would like some opinions! I was dating this guy for a total of 3 years with a 7 mth split in between. I have endometrosis and was rejected of bc by my ob because of irregular bleeding i was supposed to start on lupron 28 days after stopping bc which would’ve put my body into full menopause for only 6 mths. He knew this..so it wasn’t brand new info. He has a son by a previous relationship and is a good dad, but I have repeated to him numerous times that I didn’t want anymore kids right now because I already have 2. this is alittle personal but I even went as far as buying condoms.. well in our drinking nights we would be having *********** and I would tell him to pull out…he would start saying things like it’s going to be okay…but then when he was done he would act like he pulled out but nothing there. I would get mad and question and he would say it’s on him lol..
2 weeks of just getting off bc I found out I was pregnant..only 5 weeks..SHOCKED! I bought like 4 tests showed him and he then decided to tell me he wants nothing to do with me or baby and to get an abortion and the baby is nothing but egg yolk at that time. but if I went threw abortion he would work things out with me. I told him I can’t deal with an abortion. So he broke up with me then comes back with giving me a 300 check and told me to get ride of it or he wouldn’t be no part. So we break up and still confused of even how this happened or in shock. He contacts me saying I’m selfish and abortion is the right way and he feels sorry for me and i did this to keep him around and stuck..Which is hilarious to me. I’m know 8 1/2 weeks and starting to feel better about this pregnancy and doing it alone but he still emails me saying i’m in the wrong and still trying to keep him in my life and did this on purpose to trap him and this is not going to fix us! I KNOW some people get what they deserve sometimes but the man to pin point him is 32 lives alone has tons of toys and bikes..property..and when we were dating wouldn’t do pitty crap for me nor did i ask because he was really a man that well…. I would have to support myself basically. anyways, he came over christmas eve to tell me that he got a letter in envelope from court and ANOTHER woman is saying he fathered her 1 1/2 yr old and wants a dna test. so now he has 2.5 kids with 3 different woman.
basically I want to keep this baby and not to keep him around and I feel strong and weak..it’s hard being a single parent then i ask is this right. Abortion just isn’t’ an option for me. I can’t see an adoption when I am a great mother to my 2 now. I just feel I should let him go and don’t contact him my family says keep the 300 and have the baby I’ll be fine is that wrong and to keep money that was intended on an abortion? he told me tonight by email he want’s the check in mail tomarrow. but I’m hurt and disgusted of the crap that he said. how can men act like that? please give some points without being rude…
I re-read wow that was long sorry..but most people u didn’t get whole story…anyway what I mean’t in a certain part is I’m getting slammed by him saying to me “do you think this baby is going to keep me around? this isn’t going to fix us.” so basically making me feel like he thinks this was planned to pin!

Aug 13


i have an upcoming drug test june 24th,the last time i smoked was june 2nd it was preferably around 3hits 2hits and one out of a pop can and the blunt was split between 5 people.i am 17 and way about 135 inever gain or loose wait so i dont know much about my metabolism.i know none of you can actually tell me yes or no im not that dumb im just really looking for oppinions so please dont come a me with that as i know the mistake ive made and i dont need you to tell me how to smoke because believ me i am not if i pass thes drug test.but do you think if idrink lots of water cranberry juice and take niacin i will have a chance of passing or do you have any advice for me.and since i only smoke around once a month and not every month the thc will leave my system faster than 30 days?
im sorry its a urine test.

Jun 29


am nearly 18 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 months. After 2 months we had sex, and the first time the condom split. The next day I took the morning after pill and the hospital put me on the contraceptive pill, but I didn’t realize it didn’t cover you till a week of taking it. My boyfriend and I had *** 5 times without protection before the pill would actually have began to work. About a week after I went to the hospital to have my blood pressure checked, and whilst I was there, decided to request a pregnancy test which was negative. However I was told that I may not have had enough hormones in me at the time and the test could be negative. Additionally, one night I was ill and was sick, and the pill would have got out of my system and maybe jeapodised my safety/ protection.

Now, a month later, my ***** are bigger, slightly veiny, I have put on a little weight, I have a very light brown mark in my underwear every day, I feel distracted and almost tired at times and I’m ****** quite regularly… I haven’t had a period for two months, as that is how long I have been taking the pill and I didn’t have a break in between (when you are supposed to have your period), as I didn’t want to be on over the xmas holidays. I know some of these symptoms can be from taking the pill, i.e. bigger ***** and slight weight gain, but I’m told the others are prodominantly early pregnancy symptoms.

If I am pregnant, I won’t get rid of the baby, I just want some opinions on whether you think I may be pregnant so I can think things through more seriously, as I have already been to the hospital once and wouldn’t at this point like to return unless the chances I am are high.

Please help, thanks :) xxx
Earlier that day I went to the hospital I took a pregnancy test, and it was negative, so I don’t want to keep buying them if it’s unlikely I’m not cz I don’t want to keep spending money if it’s unlikely I am.. thats why I need opinions x
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Jun 25


im hoping to be able to claim for maternity allowance,
from the 66week test period i have worked 22weeks in the UK, though a further 23weeks abroad, my test period is from 17th january08-23rd april. i returned from australia end february.
would i still be eligible for maternity allowance? its says you have to have worked 26weeks, ive worked 45weeks, though its split as 22weeks in UK and 23 abroad.
ive been on jobseekers since getting back and just recently put in a claim for income support.

Jun 24


Hi i went to the doc to get a regular check up and they fount protein in my urine i have been really stressed being that be and the father of my baby split up a month ago because he went back with his ex girlfriend and is denying my son but at the same time he says that its his and he know he has to pay child support. I have been angry and stressed but im trying to stay calm im doing what is best for my son and for his health. What does protein in the urine mean doctors are shocked because they are starting to find things like i might has pregnancy diabetes i have to have another glucose test already had the 1hr now i have to have the 3hr. and i also have to do a 24 hour urine test where i keep all my *** in a jug for 24 hours and bring it up there after the 24hrs. My sono doc told me if they couldn’t find out why he is growing so fast he could be still born i dont know y she would tell a young single mom that he is 8lbs at 36weeks and 3days that’s not that bad he is going to be a healthy baby. Im just worried Little he is my first.
WHAT DOES PROTEIN IN UR URINE MEAN

Jun 19


I have very weird periods. Honestly I have had an eating disorder for the best 8 years..back and forth with weight. I went about 3.5 years (split up) without a periods, and then I would go with a periods sometimes but not regular. But I have been really working on getting better.

I have had a “regularish” period for the last 6 months. One month it will be 28 days, another it would be 35 days…

my last period was 7/22. I am having pregnancy signs. Sick all of the time, needing tons of sleep, headaches, fatigue..i also have dark rings around my nipples,. and my ***** seem to be a bit fuller. I have took 3 pregnancy test…all negative..but still no period. I am at a lost. I feel pregnant, but I just don’t know when to test…gah. HELP!!

Jun 16


ok, me and my gf had *** three-four weeks ago. we used a condom which split, however i didnt ejaculate inside her. but i think there was some pre-cum there. anyhow, i was on holiday and when i got bak she said that she was a week late on her period and she had stomach cramps. but last sunday she came on and now she is on her period.. we are doing a test today but i just wanted to ask an opinion because does it mean that if shes now on her period she is not pregnant. please help we are both really worried. thank you all. also, we have a pregancy test we are going to do today, but its not a bought one it is one that the chemists use… does two lines mean pregnant, there are no instructions on it… pls help me.;..

May 31


I ve always been irregular with my periods and missed them for 6 months due to stress and then i had 3 and i ve missed the past 2
i took a pregnancy test a month ago which said negative
but im getting paranoid

me and my boyfriend always use contraception and he checks the condom after *** so he knows it hasnt split or anything
but last week i had stomach pains for just over a week
and i am feeling a little sick sometimes
but apart from that no other major changes as i have always felt a little tired during the daytime
but i just wondered if anyone could help?

I had a blood test done last week can they detect pregnancy?

Im really scared so any help would be appreciated
it was just like a normal blood test

but they just said my homophones were inbalanced it wasnt like a pregnancy blood test just one to see why my periods werent coming

but i was on the verge of polycystic ovaries before so its a bit like hmmm

I stopped my periods when i came back from uni , my habits had changed like i started the gym and i was not eating throughout the day and mainly at night which may have affected it

but now im like looking at all these symptoms on the web which worries me

im only 19 im not even thinking about getting pregnant

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