Autoresponder for You

i rele like this guy @ my schol but idk if he liks me we can call him bob & his friend fred. 1day i couldnt go 2 my loker cuz bob,fred,& 8 of their friends were in circle @ my loker, me &my friend told’em 2 move, so they split in2 2 lines & made a tiny path 4 me 2 get 2 my loker then they closed the circle. then 1day fred told me i was amazing & bob was by him &bob looked nervus. & bob nodded, so i guess he agreed. then 1day in s.s. we had a test & i sit by fred & when fred was turnin in his test, i thought it was him that flew in2 the seat next 2me but i turned & it was bob! i freaked out,&he smiled, i smiled, fred was like BOB GET UP! then bob laughed&got up. awhile bac bob was in a group w/ me in 1of my classes &he acted all nice and offered his seat &everythin! bobs rele nice&everythin but idk if he liks me. 1reson i dont think he does is: he’ll talk 2my friends on aim but not me! hes only talkd 2me 1time on aim. so i rele need help! does he like me?! (btw bob&his friends r populr)
ok i asked 1 of my friends that has talked to “bob” on aim. and i forgot but, 1 nite my friend asked bob if he hated me and he goes: oh yes, no actually i dont. so i know he doesnt **** me. and 1 of my other friends 1 time told him i had like 101% in math cuz of bonus points and shes like: shes so lucky! and hes like: haha yeah….so if that helps any with my ? !!!

long story short, we were together for about 6 months, we split, she was with another guy, we got back together and she is pregnant, paternity test, it was his, the whole time after we were together, ive stayed by her side cause i love her and didnt her to be alone so i did a lot of stuff for her, all because she promised he wont ever spend the night after the baby is born, and throughout the pregnancy she told me she doesnt want to be with him, and that she loves me, and i really dont think she wants to be with him, but now she is entering her 38th wk and dr. says shes real close and now she says that he MIGHT sleep over, even before there was cheating issues, should i trust her? i want to but it seems wierd? should i even talk to her? im not saying he cant see the baby but he lives about an hour away and i dont think its neccesary that he sleeps over, am i crazy for feeling decieted over the course of the last nine months? what should i do?

I have been with the same guy for two years now. I’m not sharing our ages so you cannot judge based on that; but we are in our twenties I’ll put it at that. It will mark two years in July this year. We’ve had our problems in the beginning. Now it all seems to be running it’s course down hill. It seems to me he does not know what he wants anymore and does not have the guts to admit it. Here is what gets me second guessing his actions 1 year and 8 months into the relationship. March of 2009 he asks for a break; because of trust from me accusing him constantly (I think i do it out of habit because of how I was treated in my last relationship) he never did anything to destroy my trust, but i kept doing that. Also it seemed a little stale. So I stayed at my moms and we took a ‘break’, it was about 2 weeks and we got back together. Everything seemed ok. Bur after the break i could just sense something more was there that wasn’t being said. After the break and we get back together, he tells me he’s moving next month! So I’m like not even warned about this only in a months advance?! So I’m like is one thing leading to an other here??

So from the beginning of our relationship, he has told me all about how he’s wanted to move to Arizona (he has family out there) after he visited in 2006. He’s always talked about it. But the thing is, he told me a month before he wanted to move; told me in march. He told me he had been planning it since December of 2008 but didn’t know if we was for sure; (but never said anything). That explains why he told me he never had any money, IT WAS BECAUSE HE WAS STASHING IT AWAY.He is staying with his grandmother who lives in a elderly housing; that’s his excuse as to why I could not come with him at first. His mother confirmed that with me that she does in fact live in elderly housing and she cannot have anyone living with her. He’s staying there temporarily; until he gets on his feet. He has no job yet, because of the bad economy I am guessing. He’s been in Arizona for a month and 2 weeks now.

Then out of the blue, he’s been thinking he says. And he has a lot on his mind. He still thinks we have trust issues because i accused him of something outrageous. He thought that the break and time apart for a while would work and then he thought this distance would bring us closer together and the accusing would stop; but it didn’t he says. So he said that we should split up for a bit (like it makes a difference we are 3,000 miles apart!) and talk about this as friends for a while and try to work things out. He says he still loves me very much and if it weren’t for the trust issues which is a big DEAL for him, that he thinks I’d be the ‘one’. He doesn’t want loose that. So he thinks being single for a while and doing our own thing is a good way to build trust. He says he has no intention what so ever to meet or date other people. He says he trusts himself in what he wants and want to make things better for us and still wants me to move out there with him. But he definitely wants to know that the accusing will stop before we continue this. Basically being apart really puts to test our trust, our loyalty, and our own word to the ultimate test; so he says. Without trust, you have nothing he says; I believe that’s true.Also he seems so eager to have me change my myspace status to single; which i haven’t yet, I’M NOT THAT DESPERATE to go flaunt that I’m single. (he hasn’t changed his either because I haven’t changed mine yet lol)

Does this make any sense!? OR does he just want to let me down easy?? Can someone please put some input?

I have a girlfriend and her daughter is pregnant out of wedlock. She dated the same man for about a year,split with him briefly, and slept with a random guy once (unprotected sex). Now, 5 weeks later, she’s back with the boyfriend and pregnant. Boyfriend doesn’t know about the one nighter which happened around the estimated contriception date the doctor gave her. Should I advise the boyfriend that he may want to get a paternity test prior to allowing his name to be put on the birth certificate (he’ll be paying child support for 18 years if his name is on the document, regardless of DNA tests later). Or, would you just let that happen and figure it’s none of your business?

your past and no luck? Had you paid on these
find old freinds site and still no luck? I just did
50 dollars worth of terrible. emails bounce or
phones been disconnected etc.

We started out as friends, but when I became single he aggressively pursued me as a romantic interest. I wanted to take things slow, but he was so attentive, charming and persistent that I decided to give him a chance.

Once we started dating, he was passionate about every aspect of our relationship. From the first day, he became possessive and wanted to monopolize my time. Creating a balance between starting the relationship and living my own life became hard, but since I was moved by his enthusiasm I decided to just go with the flow.

It takes me a while to warm up to things, which I definitely let him know. It was a few months before I became truly comfortable opening up to him. In the meantime, he was introducing me to his friends and family and trying to get to know mine.

Finally, I had time to reflect on our relationship when I took a trip out of the country. I realized that the months of courtship had endeared him to me and that his unwavering interest made me trust that he was sincere. I decided to put my heart into his hands and relinquish my emotions to the relationship.

When I came home, we were closer than ever after 6 months of dating.

But there were still a few things that needed to be ironed out, such as the possessiveness and the fact that he sometimes made me feel that my schedule and agenda were secondary to his. When we began to talk about these issues, he would lose his patience very quickly and shut down. Our arguments generally led nowhere, since he is stubborn and quick to withdraw. During arguments, he would be quick to abandon me, anywhere. It could be in the middle of the night, or in the midst of a busy city street - of I became upset about any issue, he would be gone sooner than I could think straight.

We broke up a few times and got back together. There developed a pattern where anytime I would get upset, he would just turn his phone off and stop answering my calls and texts. I did everything that I could to try to resolve the problems, and soon I felt as though the tables were turned and I was having to come up with convincing arguments for him to be with me - it had taken me a while to warm up to him, but once I did, I really did. He became busy with work and made it clear that I was not his number 1 priority, his career is - since we are young, I understood this.

I felt as though I had to balance the beginning of our relationship, when I was not sure and he was, and became more loving and atttentive. In our most private moments, he shared with me the fact that though he was under pressure with work and the tensions of our relationship, that he still loved me with a great intensity.

I tried to give him time and space to figure out what he wanted, but somehow we wound up being together during every free moment again He initiated a lot of our dates during this time. He was again monopolizing my time. As much as I tried to continue on with my own life, he wanted to be around me so much that he accompanied me everywhere.

I was thrilled by all of this effort on his part so decided to be a supportive girlfriend and be especially conscious of his work routine and pressures, smooth his life over as much as I could.

Last weekend he went out with his friends. One of his guy friends is especially possessive of him - whenever they are around each other he pulls him away for private conversations, clearly letting me know that they are talking amongst the two of them and I am not welcome. We had planned to meet in the late evening, so when I called my boyfriend I was following up on plans. He seemed distracted and annoyed when we spoke, and when I tried to find out how we were going to meet up he seemed to not want me there. I asked him if he wanted to see me, and he said that it would be too expensive to pick me up and that he didn’t have time. He never had excuses like this before and the whole situation felt shady.

I became upset, which led him to hang up on me. Infuriated, I called him back. He sent me to voice mail, so I called about four more times before informing him that that was not a very mature or intelligent way to end a conversation.

He never called back, so the next day I wrote him an angry email, describing why his actions upset me. He was very quick to respond, and said, “I guess we can agree that this is finally over then.” I haven’t heard from him since.

How could he go from being practically obsessed with me and being utterly devoted to completely shutting me out? I wonder if his friends were an influence on him - some of them are newly single and would be encouraging him to take the easy way out of a relationship. He comes from a family where his parents rarely argued, and so I have been developing the idea that when there is a disagreement or conflict, he runs away. What do you think happened?

So here’s the story, it’s kind of long but worth a read. I’ve been dating my current gf for about 6 mo, things were seemingly going well. Last weekend she was gone overnight and I was watching her hosue for her. I was using her computer when I “accidentaly” signed into her yahoo messenger account. I was looking mostly because I knew she had archived all of our conversations from when we first met and I was curious to read them. However, it also appears that she archived several other conversations with other people. It appears that she had still been chatting with a guy whom she had a brief relationship. The content of the chats was very graphic, and I was led to believe there were also graphic phone conversations, all while she is dating me. I confront her, and she manages to get me to give her another chance. Anyway I findout today she has sent him an email, and asked him to call her tomorrow. She claims it is so she can tell him not to call any more. Dump her or talk to her?
More details… I found out “accidentally” that she was telling this guy to call again. I seem to be having these accidents. She claimed she knew I was looking at her messenger. I was, but she doesn’t realize I can’t see any convo’s she’s been having so she fessed up that he messaged her twice. About the guy; she told me about him when we first started going out. She said that they chatted online, and met a few times when he was in Chicago on business. She told me that he still calls, and they still talk however she only said that they talk as friends. So I knew that going in, but I obviously had no idea about the sexual nature of their ongoing conversations. The guy lives in Ireland so it’s not like she can physically be with him (at least not with any regularity), but the explicit nature of the conversations bothers me. She claimed she was going to stop contacting him, but then I find the previously mentioned email. I’m just at a loss for what to do.

Well this guy that i have had an off and on relationship with for 2 months. We have told eachother that we have feeling for eachother we have made out only 2 times because we never have a chance right now because of christmas family stuff. Every time he sees me he kisses me. Then yesturday things got bad!! He sent me an email saying he missed me and wanted to see me but he was afried he would try and get into my pants again. Then he sent me an email and said he was sorry for leading me on. Then he posted a myspace bulltin telling me and three other girls that he was done with relationships. I didnt know he was doing ths with three other girls. I was so pissed me and my cousin went over to his house to yell at him but when i say him i didnt have the guts to say what i feel and we left. I sent him an harsh email saying that he likes playing with girls emotions and that i sick of crying because of guys like him and that he hurt me. He hasent wrote back yet. I feel used and hurt !!!!
I feel like he did this becuase i wouldnt put out or whatever and he really never careda **** about me!!! What do i do to over come this??

I am a 19 year old guy from Minnesota. Looking for the right girl to get into a relationship with. Are you the one?? Just seeing if this could lead me the right way. If interested leave me an email.

My ex’s has told me that his new girlfriend is very jealous of his relationships with his female friends. I still have feelings for him and want him back…so I’d like to sabotage his relationship with her by having her look crazy and jealous. I’d like to send an anonymous email to some of his other female friends and make it appear like it’s from her, so that he’ll think she’s psycho and will break up with her. Any ideas on what I could say that would lead him to believe it is really her?? Obviously it’s got to be something that he can’t point the finger back at me!