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I never showed my girlfriend how I felt, I never told her I love her that often and I took her for granted and never moved into her new flat as I said I would. She emailed me saying she needs to do her own thing now and not to contact her for a while. I responded with the following:
Of course I understand, I am not asking for commitment and I know that you may never come back. I bared my soul because I so dearly Love you, it was not therapy to make me feel better, if anything it pains me even more.

I am not asking for your help, all I have left is faith in us and what we can still be and I choose to stand and wait, pray and hope, keep believing and inwardly fighting for our family.

The waiting needs to start now, you have no need to reply to this email, just do whatever it takes to make you happy, I just hope that road, somehow against all the odds leads you to us.

Is that to sad and soppy. I am not like this normally.

Can some one offer advice please?

A friend of mine i that met during Christmas got along very fast. We exchanged #s and always made sure we talked, im,email,text each other. We were also very very flirty with each other.He had no selfsteem at all. Suddenly, he told me about girls who liked him and tried to make me jealous. We could talk to each other about every/anything. We had phases where we wouldnt talk,email, ect…. All throughtout our realtionship its was obvious we both were in to each other.. We were iming one time and he told me about his friend who was afraid she was gonna lose him 2 me..he told me ‘that wont happen, for many reasons’ and he said no offense…i was really sad..i logged off and sent him an email telling him i was hurt and he led me on and that i was retared for letting my feelings get far. I think i made a mistake. Were supposed to go to a concert 2gether and after that he hasnt really be online as usual and telling me he sick so he cant tlk.

We met on an internet dating site. She lives in my town. She is looking for friendship at first but maybe it could lead to something more serious. I talked with her awhile on yahoo messenger. I hadn’t seen her online (I think she stays invisible) and so a few days later I sent a quick instant message asking her if I could email her. A couple days later she sent me an offline instant message which pretty much said she liked talking with me and wanted to talk again. It didn’t seem like it was a response to my im because she said nothing about email. It seemed to be an instant message she sent on her own. So I sent her an instant message back telling her I also wanted to chat again and asking for her email. I havn’t heard back and that was monday. Is she just not getting my offline messages? I finally just sent her a message over the dating site we met on. Any suggestions or comments.

Ok there’s this guy that really really likes me. We are not going out, and we have only meet a couple of times. I also live in a different town then him (the towns are like two hours from each other) We have been writing each other on email for like two months. I didn’t mean to lead him on I was actually trying to make him jealous of other guys so he would just forget about me. But no… now I have a boyfriend, and I think it would be a good time to get rid of the other dude (not my boyfriend) but I still don’t want to hurt him cuz he’s really nice so I was thinking of hooking him up with one of my good friends. But how do I get rid of him, hook him up with my friend and have him just forget all about me? I need some help PLEASE!
P.S. And yes we are teenagers

Okay, my bf was fine with me yesterday, and now he sent me an email that said he felt bad for “leading me on.” What do u think this means. Thank u

I met someone really nice online! We have pretty much hit it off and been hanging out for a month now. We are just friends though. Or at least I am to him. I think he likes me more. But I have told him, I can only give him friendship right now. See, I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend but we are supposedly just friends. We talk or email almost everyday. (He lives in another state.) He is my best friend. And my ex-boyfriend is coming to visit in a few weeks. Anyway, am I leading the online guy on? I really do enjoy his company.

SHY: He will find little ways to text/call/email me, stares at me in class, holds the door open for me, flirt all the time, tease each other, he put up posters in my dorm room

LEADING: Talks about his ex girlfriends, will say he wants to hang out then bails, is sketchy when his parents come to visit
We have yet to kiss… we’re 20 and in college.

A close friend of mines has met a man from Las Vegas who happened to be in Connecticut for vacation. They met at a restaurant and I happened to have broken the ice between them (since they were staring at eachother like crazy). Now they exchanged numbers & email and 2 days later she accompanied him for dinner and a movie. Then he left.
Now at the beginning of him going away they always talked on the phone.
Now this man has a busy work schedule and he works at a very well known restaurant/nightclub over there..
then as weeks passed by he stopped calling little by little and the text messages grew even smaller from a whole conversation to just him saying “I hope you’re having a good day”
She thought it was very weird of him because even when he was working and with his busy schedule he always made time to call her and conversate. So my friend had asked him if everything was okay and that if he didnt want to talk to her at all to just tell her like a mature adult instead of leading her on.
A month passed and he never replied to her text so she just stopped…
then about a week ago she decided to text him to tell him “to have a great day”
then all of a sudden he texts her back and they start having a normal conversation like they used to and even offered her to come over there next month for vacation.. but then after that night he just stopped texting her.. she’s confused and she needs some advice because she really thought she found that right man.

So this guy J and I started liking each other about a year ago and we’ve been really good friends ever since. He has totally led me on and friends have even asked if we were dating. He even told me that I was his dream girl. Anyways I’m just going to cut right to the point. He started acting really different once he moved a couple hours away. Never wanting to talk on the phone, acting like it was a burden, always saying he’ll call back but then never would, etc. He has really hurt me b/c basically I’m not good enough for him. he always has to have the best of everything & he wont take a chance on anyone. everything is all about money and connections with him. he thinks that just because im still in school and he’s graduated that i’m not good enough. (i’m going to school to be a dentist). i dont want to be with him anymore anyways but i need a response to the email he just wrote me. Here is what he said: “How are you doing? I wanted to send you an email to follow up with the
conversation we had &the text messages. First, I want to apologize a/b the way I may have acted towards you about the whole situation in the first place. It is equally as frustrating for me as it was for you. I thought I explained things well enough over the phone when we talked about the issue but I may have missed the point. I know you are looking for a relationship right now M, but I am not at the time and place for one, OK?? I dont do long distance relationships because there is too much grey area &things are assumed rather than having direct contact with an individual. Like I mentioned, if you lived in here,the situation would be much differenct. I know it may sound dumb/rude, but I **** talking on thephone, especially after Im on it all day long talking w/ clients. It isnt that I dont want to hear a/b ur day, but I need to go out &chill w/ my new friends. I know you get frustrated when I say well hey, can I call you back/can we talk 2morrow, but there are things that Id like 2 do
after a hectic day at work& talking on the phone ISNT 1 of them. u have to realize Im in the REAL world now &things are much different than what u r doing right now. Not saying 1 is better than the other.The other thing that confuses me is the fact that u always say, “I wont talk to Ben (He’s my ex boyfriend that i’ve known since i was a baby) if you dont want me too..” Talk to Ben all you want b/c if you truly do still have feelings for him, you should go back to dating him. I dont want to date a girl that has dated a guy who treats her like carp &basically has no respect for the individual & others. Shows how little you must think of yourself to stay in a situation like that, but that is not for me to say. If you want a relationship, Im not the one for you. I would only like a honest, respectful friendship, I would love to stay in touch with you. Please write back. Have a good day.”
What are some really good cutting words that I can send back? Im totally over him but i dont want him to think that hes ending it on his terms and having him think that he is SO much better than me. I never did anything wrong when I was with him and I guess he just doesnt appreciate me for who I am so thats fine but I just think that he has sort of crossed the line? I swear cute too so this isn’t over the way I look or anything!!

SOrry this was so long and thank you all so much for your help!!!!

See I like this boy, and well i want to know is he flirting with me or is he leading me on. For example, every time i see him its like he watches my every move. The yesterday i complete ignored him just to see what he would do. Well he moved closer to me, and kept doing things to get my attention it seemed like. When he was leaving i told him that i wanted to talk to him, and he told me that he had to go but to call him. I haven’t called him yet because one my friends has to email me his number. But is he leading me on or does he like me???? What do i say to him??? cause i was kinda hoping to talk to him in person. And since i only see him on mondays and sometimes fridays.