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this is a short version of my situation I’m not looking for criticism or sympathy but would like some opinions! I was dating this guy for a total of 3 years with a 7 mth split in between. I have endometrosis and was rejected of bc by my ob because of irregular bleeding i was supposed to start on lupron 28 days after stopping bc which would’ve put my body into full menopause for only 6 mths. He knew this..so it wasn’t brand new info. He has a son by a previous relationship and is a good dad, but I have repeated to him numerous times that I didn’t want anymore kids right now because I already have 2. this is alittle personal but I even went as far as buying condoms.. well in our drinking nights we would be having *********** and I would tell him to pull out…he would start saying things like it’s going to be okay…but then when he was done he would act like he pulled out but nothing there. I would get mad and question and he would say it’s on him lol..
2 weeks of just getting off bc I found out I was pregnant..only 5 weeks..SHOCKED! I bought like 4 tests showed him and he then decided to tell me he wants nothing to do with me or baby and to get an abortion and the baby is nothing but egg yolk at that time. but if I went threw abortion he would work things out with me. I told him I can’t deal with an abortion. So he broke up with me then comes back with giving me a 300 check and told me to get ride of it or he wouldn’t be no part. So we break up and still confused of even how this happened or in shock. He contacts me saying I’m selfish and abortion is the right way and he feels sorry for me and i did this to keep him around and stuck..Which is hilarious to me. I’m know 8 1/2 weeks and starting to feel better about this pregnancy and doing it alone but he still emails me saying i’m in the wrong and still trying to keep him in my life and did this on purpose to trap him and this is not going to fix us! I KNOW some people get what they deserve sometimes but the man to pin point him is 32 lives alone has tons of toys and bikes..property..and when we were dating wouldn’t do pitty crap for me nor did i ask because he was really a man that well…. I would have to support myself basically. anyways, he came over christmas eve to tell me that he got a letter in envelope from court and ANOTHER woman is saying he fathered her 1 1/2 yr old and wants a dna test. so now he has 2.5 kids with 3 different woman.
basically I want to keep this baby and not to keep him around and I feel strong and weak..it’s hard being a single parent then i ask is this right. Abortion just isn’t’ an option for me. I can’t see an adoption when I am a great mother to my 2 now. I just feel I should let him go and don’t contact him my family says keep the 300 and have the baby I’ll be fine is that wrong and to keep money that was intended on an abortion? he told me tonight by email he want’s the check in mail tomarrow. but I’m hurt and disgusted of the crap that he said. how can men act like that? please give some points without being rude…
I re-read wow that was long sorry..but most people u didn’t get whole story…anyway what I mean’t in a certain part is I’m getting slammed by him saying to me “do you think this baby is going to keep me around? this isn’t going to fix us.” so basically making me feel like he thinks this was planned to pin!

The woman found out she was pregnant 3 weeks after they split. When she told him, he said he’d help but when the baby arrived he wanted a DNA test to make sure the kid was his & he’d pay for it. She got mad & stopped returning calls & didn’t let him help her throughout the pregnancy cause she was mad at him. She also exaggerated to some co-workers that he wasn’t helping her & didn’t want anything to do with her or the baby. She also told him he wasn’t allowed to come see the baby in the hospital when she delivered. After the baby was born he did pay for a DNA test she wouldn’t show up for & he ended up taking her to court to make her get it done. He also had to take her to court to get visitation cause she wouldn’t show up at agreed meetings. I know that he was thrown around foster homes in his childhood & wanted to be a good dad since he never had one. Now he wants to sue for emotional distress. Can he, would he likely win, can she sue too since he wasn’t there for her?
Would the courts see that she just did those things out of anger & throw it out??
The DNA test he paid for would’ve been completely legal… if that might help

Im not sure if i should call her up and ask her or just wait till they call me and tell me, we split up apox three weeks ago b/c we were living with her parents and we couldnt find a home ( couldnt come up with down payment ) she told me she needed space and was nervous about this pregancy b/c the prior two didnt go as planned ( her third, my first ). i will admit i wasnt being a Great father figure to her children and have learned my mistake and would do anything in the world for a second chance, we never really fought alot but i put her first and her kids second ( mistake ive noticed ) but she is jobless and living with her parents and kids but i still drop off money ever week and put it in the mailbox and drive away b/c i know she needs it and i dont want her dad having to pay for our mistake b/c i told her i would take care of her when i moved in ( i lived in diff city when she got pregant )
i have two jobs and really no bills and have money saved up for our son, i dont call her and she doesnt call me b/c we are giving one another space- only text and talk once a week, she started to cry when i told her i want her back ( another mistake on my part-to fast ) and wanted to move her and the kids out b/c i dont want to be away from my only son- she tells me she is having to go to the doctor three times a week and do test every week, i didnt ask what type of test or anything and wouldnt know if she told me.
but a month or so ago, she told me i would be in labor room no matter what and will kick me out if i start putting attention on me or asking alot of questions-
should i ask her next time i talk to her if i will be allowed in the labor room to see my son born and if so, how should i ask ?
will you please allow me in labor room and etc ? or what..i have NO clue on how to ask.
secondly, me giving her money b/c i know she is broke- does that say anything on my part- ( money not an issue w/ me )
im 34 and she is 28
a friend told me pregant women get mad at their mate for some strange reasons…?…true ?
and plz do not **** on me
and no we dont need to talk about lawyers and child support ,,,,YET

My brother just found out that his ex girlfriend lied to him about the paternity of their son! Come to find out after a year and half that the baby my brother has been raising is not biologically his!

They have been split up since b4 the baby was born.. but he has had an active role in the babies life! She did a paternity test when Skyler was 4 months old, and my brother took her word that he was the father!.. now after raising skyler as his own and Getting the whole family attached to the child.. he finds out that the paternity test showed another guy as the father!!

Are there any laws to help him still be able to see the child…???
To top off the matters..
She has known that Skyler was not my brothers for over a year now..
and has been leaving him with his biological dad who just recently got out of prison on many drug charges!

Summery:

There’s a serial killer lose. The police have been chasing him for years with no leads. A family calls 911 explaining that thier son is missing and they found a ransom note on the table signed from the killer. The cops try to chase him down (filler) and the family can’t pay the ransom and the killer calls, stating that the son is dead. The cops get on a chase and find him. The police try to keep the family from going near their son’s killer. The killer complies and surrenders. All is calm. Just then the dad runs out screaming you killed my son and rips the gun from the cop’s hand. He aims and kills the murderer. The police try to grab him, but he runs up to the body to see the killer. He quickly slips off the mask before the police catch up to find his son dead on the ground.

You can only see it if you live in New Jersey. One person from Europe is comin to see one of the plays here. I’ll probably Youtube it. Leave contact info (email ex.) if you wuna see it.