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this is a short version of my situation I’m not looking for criticism or sympathy but would like some opinions! I was dating this guy for a total of 3 years with a 7 mth split in between. I have endometrosis and was rejected of bc by my ob because of irregular bleeding i was supposed to start on lupron 28 days after stopping bc which would’ve put my body into full menopause for only 6 mths. He knew this..so it wasn’t brand new info. He has a son by a previous relationship and is a good dad, but I have repeated to him numerous times that I didn’t want anymore kids right now because I already have 2. this is alittle personal but I even went as far as buying condoms.. well in our drinking nights we would be having *********** and I would tell him to pull out…he would start saying things like it’s going to be okay…but then when he was done he would act like he pulled out but nothing there. I would get mad and question and he would say it’s on him lol..
2 weeks of just getting off bc I found out I was pregnant..only 5 weeks..SHOCKED! I bought like 4 tests showed him and he then decided to tell me he wants nothing to do with me or baby and to get an abortion and the baby is nothing but egg yolk at that time. but if I went threw abortion he would work things out with me. I told him I can’t deal with an abortion. So he broke up with me then comes back with giving me a 300 check and told me to get ride of it or he wouldn’t be no part. So we break up and still confused of even how this happened or in shock. He contacts me saying I’m selfish and abortion is the right way and he feels sorry for me and i did this to keep him around and stuck..Which is hilarious to me. I’m know 8 1/2 weeks and starting to feel better about this pregnancy and doing it alone but he still emails me saying i’m in the wrong and still trying to keep him in my life and did this on purpose to trap him and this is not going to fix us! I KNOW some people get what they deserve sometimes but the man to pin point him is 32 lives alone has tons of toys and bikes..property..and when we were dating wouldn’t do pitty crap for me nor did i ask because he was really a man that well…. I would have to support myself basically. anyways, he came over christmas eve to tell me that he got a letter in envelope from court and ANOTHER woman is saying he fathered her 1 1/2 yr old and wants a dna test. so now he has 2.5 kids with 3 different woman.
basically I want to keep this baby and not to keep him around and I feel strong and weak..it’s hard being a single parent then i ask is this right. Abortion just isn’t’ an option for me. I can’t see an adoption when I am a great mother to my 2 now. I just feel I should let him go and don’t contact him my family says keep the 300 and have the baby I’ll be fine is that wrong and to keep money that was intended on an abortion? he told me tonight by email he want’s the check in mail tomarrow. but I’m hurt and disgusted of the crap that he said. how can men act like that? please give some points without being rude…
I re-read wow that was long sorry..but most people u didn’t get whole story…anyway what I mean’t in a certain part is I’m getting slammed by him saying to me “do you think this baby is going to keep me around? this isn’t going to fix us.” so basically making me feel like he thinks this was planned to pin!

From the beginning his parents hated me. I was 18 and he was 20 when we first got together. We knew right then and there that we loved each other so we decided to try for a baby within a couple of months we were expecting. His parents never believed she was his child. His parents said we had to get married now which we planned to after the baby was born. I was so happy I was pregnant I told one of his dad’s workers a week after our wedding. His dad yelled at me because he didn’t want anyone to know it would be bad for business. His dad owned a trucking company at the time. The night he yelled at me I almost had to go to the hospital. I finally calmed down enough. For the first year of our marriage, we fought to stay together. His parents have tried so many times to split us up, I can’t even count how many. His never liked me because I spoke my own mind and have a tattoo. His parents always believed I forced myself on him even though I was sexual abused when I was little so I know how that feels and I would never do that to anyone. His parents never wanted anyone to know I was pregnant until after the wedding. During my pregnancy, I asked his parents numerous of times to go to the doctor’s appts but they wouldn’t. It wasn’t until I was soo sick that his mom started helping me. I had severe pre-clampisa. I had a emergency c-section at 34 weeks. His parents found out Delane is indeed his daughter, they didn’t need a dna test because she looked exactly like him and nothing like me. Since the day, she was born his family wanted us to go to all the holidays they would fight us to get to see Delane for the holidays. Like my family wasn’t important as them, but when I found out I was pregnant my family supported us and my mom went to almost all my appts. with us not like his family. We finally snapped in March of 2008, they wanted to have her for Easter and so they asked Matt on the phone. It got so bad we always were right by each other when we talked to them on the phone. So they asked if they could have Delane for Easter, Matt said maybe let me talk to Cassie about it. So at the time Matt and I worked but I had a half way early shift. I worked 9 am to 6 pm so I wanted Delane to paint Easter eggs with me so I called them and told them, I wanted her for Easter they said Matt said they can have her for Easter so I blew up and told them to never talk to us again. A week went and I was still upset, I didn’t start my period so I took a pregnancy test it came out positive a very faint positive. I was so happy until later on that day I started cramping and bleeding sure enough I had a misccarriage. I went to the doctors 2 days later and he confirmed it and he said I miscarried because of stress. My doctor knew everything that was going on with his parents. I had to be put on anexity and depression medicine. The anexity was beacuse I would have attacks when I talked about them or with them. His parents stayed out of our lives for a year until we got a letter from their attorney about taking us to court if they don’t get to see her so we let them for awhile but then it got messed up again this time I told them to take us to court. Matt and I were even talking about divorce because of them. We talked about it and decided to stay together but we just felt like it wasn’t worth it anymore with all the fighting we were doing with his family but we love each other alot. His mom was dignosed with diabetes in 2007 but nobody changed their diet for her and she didn’t either. She has gone to the hospital alot all because of her not taking care of herself. She went to the hospital last Saturday and her husband told me it was all my fault but he wouldn’t tell me why she was sick so it doesn’t sound like I did it. I sent her a sonogram picture to prove I am pregnant and that’s why they can’t see Delane because they stress me out too much but that was in September and now it’s October and we only live 30 mins from them so I know she got it already. His dad said they never wanted to see Delane again so I should be happy but I’m not I feel terrible and I didn’t do anything. Should I feel this way? I really need some advice on this. Thanks for reading something this long

ok, me and my gf had *** three-four weeks ago. we used a condom which split, however i didnt ejaculate inside her. but i think there was some pre-cum there. anyhow, i was on holiday and when i got bak she said that she was a week late on her period and she had stomach cramps. but last sunday she came on and now she is on her period.. we are doing a test today but i just wanted to ask an opinion because does it mean that if shes now on her period she is not pregnant. please help we are both really worried. thank you all. also, we have a pregancy test we are going to do today, but its not a bought one it is one that the chemists use… does two lines mean pregnant, there are no instructions on it… pls help me.;..

Hi I am almost 20 my bf is almost 23 and I think I am pregnant cause we had *** from October 23rd to the 30th without a condom but only when he was pre-cumming and when he had actually *** he always had a condom on so I never stressed or worried I might be until like 4 days ago when I woke up extremely bloated, and for like a week in a half now I have been sleeping like crazy and never feeling like I got any sleep always exhausted no matter what, also now my moods are going nuts like I get frustrated or sad in a split second it seems, Im getting headaches, very dizzy allot, and using the restroom more frequently, i’m having trouble finding comfortable positions to lay, and lately I have been getting so ***** like crazy like oh my god what the hell i want *** bad and right now and not stop type which I have never been like before ever.
This morning I took a pregnancy test but it came up negative and my last period was on November 15th and it was very odd but I think that might of been to early to have a missed period if i am pregnant and concieved on one of those last few days…
So does anyone think I’m pregnant or ever been through these feeling before and have any suggestions?
I am gonna look out for my next period and on like December 13th if I still feel this way take another test.
Please anyone that has nothing nice or professional to say like oh u might have an STD, or something like why did you have *** if you can’t afford a kid, or wow your to young to have a kid you need to get your life in order and settled straight please do not respond thats just plain immature and rude!!!!
Also I do want to add since some of u brought it up Yes me and my man are talking about it if I am what were gonna do and if not were no matter what gonna have him wear a condom everytime for now on. But we have decided since we don’t not belive in abortion that if I am were keeping the baby gonna get everything done like check-ups prenatal vitaimins and so on, and he is the type of guy that wont leave if he got some1 pregnant from his words he says If you are Baby Love I am gonna take it like a man and help you out get you down to were I am and we have a family since well we do love each other very much!!!!

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend on the 28th of May. Unfortunatly we had an incident where the condom split!

i went to get the morning after pill three hours after having ***.

im not due to have my period until this Thursday (11th June) so im not late yet

i took a pregnancy test which detects pregnancy five days before the day of your expected period. i did this on sunday and got negative (not pregnant)
im going to take another pregnancy test on thursday

do you think im pregnant? :’(
sorry im kinda freaking out right now even though theres no need really

im just looking for some confidence and advice
thankyou in advance

ok so i had *** with my ex while me and my b/f split up.me and my ex had *** 5 days before period also the next morning after me and my ex had *** i went and got the morning after pill just in case well 5 days later my period did come (3/8/08) but how do i know if i was preggo!because i took a test two weeks later and it was negative i took another test after that week and it was still negative well me and my b/f got back together after my period and we had *** non stop i been with him ever since (after my period) well i am pregnant and i have recieved 3 ultrasounds my 1st one said i was due 12/14/08 the second said 12/6/08 and the third one said 12/8/08 so according to these due dates what is the possibility of my ex being the father remember we had *** 5 days b4 my period the next morning i took the morning after pill and my period did come (but im not sure if i was a period it did last 5 days but i been reading things and it says u can get ur period and b preg